YOUR VERY IMPORTANT DECISION

This comes to us from one of my favorite authors and speakers Billy Alsbrooks. It is a theme that is universal to many different schools of thought, but is not often acted upon. We need a clear and definite description of who we are. We need to be crystal clear on what we stand for and what we refuse to stand for. We need to establish for ourselves a clear set of values and standards.

Why is this so important? Without this identity, we are at the mercy of the others and the world around us. This would be no problem if the world was a place committed to everyone’s best interests and maintaining a healthy and happy environment. As we are aware this is not the case. There are companies spending large amount of money to tell us things such as we are not cool enough unless we are wearing their particular brand of shoes or we must be a part of a certain social media group. Everything from alcohol to outfits has a definition of what is cool and what is not. Often, this message is backed up by those in the acting and music profession. We hear songs promoting the same brand of shoes or alcohol that the companies would like us to believe is cool. The only thing that is gained through this is an increase in that companies bottom line, and chances are, a decrease in ours.

Corporate influence is actually one of the tamer, and other than financial, harmless sources striving to control our thinking. Media outlets, politicians, and even coworkers, classmates, family and friends can all do the same. Their intentions can be good, or on occasion not so good. Either way what is right for them is not necessarily right for us. Conveying that in a firm, but nonjudgmental way can be tricky but is necessary.

Why is this so important? If we allow ourselves to be at the mercy of corporate, political and social agendas of others our lives will be in a sense indentured servants to their goals and dreams. We can end up saying and doing things that go against our spirit. This will leave us feeling disappointed in ourselves and on occasion with a feeling of distain toward our behavior and who we have become. The ironic thing about this is that it can be hard to diagnose. It will leave us feeling down, dejected and unhappy with our lives. It may not be apparent as to the source of the issue.

The solution is to spend some quality time defining the person looking back at you in the mirror. It will not only reduce the stress in your life, but provide you drive, purpose and a strong sense of identity. This will set you up to live an amazing life!  

 

6 thoughts on “YOUR VERY IMPORTANT DECISION

  1. I was born with a plan Psalm 139:14 New International Version (NIV)

    14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

    Also Mathew 5:15-16

    *Let your light* so *shine*before men, that. they may see *your*good works, and. glorify *your* Father which is in heaven. [image: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/%5D Wikipedia › wiki Matthew 5:15–16 That simple Great job Neil ! On Fri, Dec 21, 2018 at 8:00 AM SECRET 2 AN AMAZING LIFE wrote:

    > drrock00 posted: ” This comes to us from one of my favorite authors and > speakers Billy Alsbrooks. It is a theme that is universal to many different > schools of thought, but is not often acted upon. We need a clear and > definite description of who we are. We need to be cryst” >

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    1. I learned my identity throughout my homeless journey. I always had it but fine tuning it was the hard part. I learned, through group therapies and other outlets, how to use the voice I have to tune my identity.

      I can honestly say being homeless changed my life… For the better.

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