BUTTERFLY 🦋 LESSON

What an important lesson today is! Talk about the power of attraction, this is a great analogy! Many of us spend our entire lives chasing what we want. We chase the perfect relationship. We chase happiness. We chase inner peace. While pursuing all of these is certainly a noble end, it would be far better to attract them. If you think of the butterfly analogy the picture above offers, I hope you can see how this could transfer to other areas of our life.

Let us take a look at the few we have mentioned. Many people chase the perfect relationship. The perfect relationship is one that loves and learns from the imperfection. Instead of looking high and low for the ‘perfect partner’, it would be wise for us to take an attraction course of action. That would be to get clear on the what we are looking for in a partner, than working on ourselves and our own lives that they would be something that someone would want to be a part of. If you become the best version of yourself, that is what will make you irresistible.

How about chasing happiness? This is something I learned all about in writing my first two books, A Happy Life for Busy People, and Living the Dream. The more you chase happiness, the more it eludes you. Instead, work on creating an environment that allows happiness to grow and flourish. What kind of new age mumbo jumbo is this? It is common sense really. Start a ritual of gratitude. Maybe writing down three things you are grateful for that day and why. Begin each day reciting a positive affirmation that empowers you. Listen to something inspirational on the way to work. Give a genuine compliment to one person each day. Before long, happiness will fill every corner of your life. That does not mean there will not be tough times, but their frequency and duration will continue to diminish.

Chasing inner peace is much the same. If you create circumstances that will provide you inner peace, that peace will have a chance to flourish. It will be different for everyone. Some will set aside, and stick to, twenty minutes of mindful meditation a day. Some will need to drive around blasting their favorite 80’s hard rock. If you are like me, it could be a little bit of both. Reducing factors that cause you stress and increase factors that reduce stress will help you achieve inner peace.

Think of butterflies. You cannot chase them down. They will just fly away. If you focus of creating a beautiful garden the butterflies will love to come to, they will flock to you. How about in your life? What are we chasing when we should be attracting?