
This is something I think all of us are guilty of to some degree. I’ve been guilty of it even after I knew better. The irony is that by listening to understand, you are in a position to formulate a better reply.
Listening to understand instead of reply is so rare that it will make you stand out. Showing genuine concern and compassion for others will not only reflect well on you, it will have others reciprocating.
The next time you are feeling frustrated that someone does not appear to be truly listening to you, use that frustration to remind yourself not to do the same. Your friends will thank you. Your spouse will thank you.