Today we celebrate the birth of Martin Luther King Jr. American minister and civil rights leader. This gentleman is someone I greatly admire. He had the bravery to stand up and bring to light the deplorable treatment of his race. Knowing standing up to speak his mind and do what is right may very well cost him his very life is something I cannot grasp. Not only to do so on a personal level, but in the national spotlight so that every person full of hate would know exactly who you were and where you lived. Risking not only your safety, but that of your family and friends. How many of us would be willing to do that just because it is the right and just thing to do?

That bravery, as amazing and mind-blowing as it is to me, is not what I admire and respect most about this man. It is something entirely different and something we can learn from his legacy. His bravery to me is easily trumped by a skill that I think has gotten lost in those who crusade for causes of both racial and social justice – compassion. In everything he stood for, Dr. King never advocated revenge, he never proposed the use of violence or crime. He never asked to be given anything other than equality, which all people, everywhere, so richly deserve.

Reading this may sound like compassion is nothing to difficult, but think of this, in the time Dr. King was alive, he was spit on, called vile unspeakable names, physically assaulted, had his life and the life of his family threatened, and as we all know, ended up having his life taken.

Throughout all of this one would not blame him if he screamed things in return such as, “You owe me!” or wanted to burn down their houses and threaten their families in return. I certainly do not want to imagine what my reaction would be if I were treated in the same fashion.

What impresses me most about Martin Luther King Jr. is his not only willingness, but insistence on working together. Dr. King understood that to make equality work we need not only the qualities of bravery, strength, and persistence, but also those of compassion, faith and understanding. Much like Nelson Mandela when he was released after having 25 years of his life taken away solely because of his race, he did not seek revenge, but said “Let us work together to lead our country.” When I read that my first thought was, “he said what?!” How many of us would be able to put our egos and feelings of vengeance aside for the greater good? How many of us would be able to understand that violence and crime are not protests and will not lead to a solution.

Which brings me to another thing I deeply admire about Martin Luther King Jr. He always encouraged every member of his race to be the most upstanding individuals they could be. There is nothing that takes away the validity of prejudice, than proving their venomous opinions wrong through right action. Just as there is nothing that feeds the fire of hatred propagated by those filled with racism and prejudice than behaving just as they describe. There is nothing that shows these traits as being archaic and asinine as forcing someone to say, “See that person helping the homeless over there with a smile and compassion? We should hate them because they are gay/black/Muslim/left-handed or whatever idiotic hatred I feel like spewing today.” Then they are the ones who look foolish.

Any intelligent person knows there are good and bad people in each and every group you examine. In today’s world where hate can often steal the front page, we must work harder than ever to love and understand one another. We must do so by not only passing laws to punish discrimination, but more importantly by addressing beliefs and behavior behind the actions of hatred. Real change happens first in the heart, then in the court of law.

It will take all the strength we have not to respond to judgment and hatred thrust upon us with hatred of our own, but we must be vigilant in our fight to make the world a more peaceful and loving place. We must do that by not only being the best person we can be, but having patience, understanding and compassion for those who need it the most, those who hate.

I leave you with one of my favorite quotes by Martin Luther King Jr. that I feel captures what we have been discussing here today.

“Darkness cannot drive our darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” – Martin Luther King Jr.



  1. Love, love, love your article, Neil! So full of teaching!

    You know that Dalai Lama states that the cornerstone of humanity is compassion? I see a slight resemblance. Though Dr. King was a different kind of influencer than Dalai Lama, they both preach similar values. Compassion, is indeed, the first value to apply on oneself and to others.

    I found so much value in the last phrase! Amazing how a betrayed and tortured man could still have seen and preached the beauty in this world!

    I salute you fairly for this great article! Such personalities are, definitely, worth quoting and given a tribute!

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  2. We baby boomers remember the racism within our communities. We also remember the pride of the Blacks in the late 50’s, 60’s and early 70’s. Soul, Rhythm and Blues, Jazz and the Motown classic performers that will forever be my kind of music. That’s when black music was great! It wasn’t until my teeny-bopper years in the early 60’s, that high school concerts could be allowed to be integrated! Martin Luther King gave all the blacks hope and an end to racism. Unfortunately, some of those that marched with King, are now an embarrassment to their race. We all know who they are and some are now in our government! My first husband died at an early age and never got to see his daughter marry or the two grandson’s that only would know my hubby now of 18 years, as their Papa. Danny has a white mother, that was spit on when she married his father, who is Black and Seminole Indian. Her family disowned her and not long after Danny was born, his dad left. He, could not handle the racist pressure from the Blacks and Whites. Although he was an Army pilot in the war, the racism because of the color of his skin was too much for him to bear! Same red blood! Same internal organs! Same male body as any white man! When Danny and I first married, as always, I did not had a racist bone in my body! In the last 18 years, I’ve experienced racism from both sides of the human race. Now, it’s just hidden better! Dr. Martin Luther King had a beautiful dream, and while I won’t see an end to racism in my life time, I pray my grandson’s generation will be the catalyst for change!

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    1. Helping to understand those who express racist ideology is my goal. Why do they feel that way? What lead them to that belief? Being Native myself, and even a few times because of being Armenian, I have been a victim of racism. It doesn’t anger so much as shock and sadden me. Still, it motivates me to be the best person I can be.

      Thank you for your insightful feedback Linda!


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