This is so true. Even yours truly, the man who wrote A Happy Life for Busy People and Living the Dream, has days where all my thoughts seem negative. This time of year, when the ground is covered in gray snow and ice and the sun rarely shines, my spirit can seem just as gloomy.
How do you beat those blues? First, acknowledge them. If we try to ignore negative feelings, they only seem to grow. If we observe them with an almost detached sense of reality, they seem to lose their grip. Often, I’ll talk to myself and say, “I’m feeling really bummed today. I wonder why?”
After that, I begin to shift my focus. The easiest way to do this is with gratitude. Focusing on what is working changes our focus and life completely. Reflection on positive memories and things we are looking forward to gives us a great mental vacation as well.
We all will have negative thoughts and emotions. Acknowledge them, observe them if you must, but whatever you do, don’t feed them!
SECRET 2 AN AMAZING LIFE 