This post is about a subject I often discuss here. That subject is perspective. How you look at life is far more important than what you are looking at. It is important to remember that we cannot control life’s events, but we can control what they mean to us. This is most important when you are facing a challenging situation. We have discussed that in past posts and will do so in future ones as well.
Today’s post is about a different way of using both perspective and meaning. Let me explain. One of the greatest blessings in my life is my relationship with my lady. Honestly, not a day goes by that we are not told what a great couple we are by someone. A lot of the time we hear things like “i want what you have” or not so positively stated “im so jealous of you” well there are two points to be made here. First, there is a lot of hard work that goes on in creating what we have. We do our best to make it fun hard work, but we are never lazy when it comes to our love. We will go into that another day. Second, and the point I’m making today, is this, we look for love. What does that mean? Simply stated every situation that happens whether it is her waiting to get my attention while I’m lost in writing something or I’m waiting,usually not so patiently for her to get ready. We always look for the love. When all she wants is my attention and I am lost in my world know she is being grateful for having a man who is living his passion and doing his best to make the world a better place. Being a simple minded man, as I sit wondering what women do for all that time while getting ready, i focus on the fact she is working so hard to look beautiful for Me and what a lovely woman I have. We are not perfect, but we always look to see the love in what each other is doing. Here is my final example.  Earlier today we found ourselves discussing what goes on behind closed bathroom doors. Without giving you the colorful details, let me assure you I left that conversation feeling closer and more loving than ever. I know at this point if I were you I might be asking what the hell can talking about bodily function make you feel love? Trust me it had me laughing too.  The truth is, even though we are so passionate and romantic, we are open, comfortable and honest. Seeing how we could discuss and joke about something so personal is what keeps us close. So if you want a great love like I share, do yourself a favor. Whether it be when a challenge arises, or even a need to use the restroom, if you want love, look for the love. Until next time my friends

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