Every Friday I try to leave you all with something to ponder. This came to me ironically while pulling out of my parking space leaving our fine state fair. I was backing up and looking in the rear view mirror. The I shifted into drive, but before I could start to pull away some people were yelling right outside my window and took my attention away for a second. When I saw that it was nothing serious I went back to focusing on leaving my parking space. Forgetting I had already put it in drive, I looked in the rear view mirror and took my foot off the accelerator. Imagine my surprise when the car began to move forward! I immediately applied the brake and thought “That could have been bad” Mind you all this took a second, but as I did pull out of my parking thought I was struck with what a powerful metaphor this is for life. Can you imagine trying to drive forward to work, while only looking in your rear view mirror? First it would take forever and second you would be extremely lucky if you arrived at all. Now what does this have to do with living an amazing life? What struck me, which was luckily not another car, was how many of us do this on a daily basis over and over again? I am not saying the road is filled with crazy drivers, although some days that is debatable. What I am saying is this, how many of us are striving toward a new future while focused on the past? It just doesn’t work. How many times have we heard friends, or even ourselves say “The last person I dated was dishonest so I am going to have a hard time trusting in my new relationship” You are staring in the rear view mirror focusing on your past hurts until BAM! your current relationship crashes due to your ‘trust issues’. How many future ideas and adventures have you passed on because you were focused on past failures? I’m not saying we shouldn’t learn from our past and adjust for the future or even just look back to admire where we were and how far we have come. Just like in driving where you are supposed to ‘glance in the rear view mirror every eight seconds’ I suggest that is what you do with life. You’ll have a lot better results when focused on what is around you and what is coming at you. Remember you can never drive into the future looking into the review mirror. Oh, and as a side note, please use your turn signal.