“My life has been based on trial and error. I finally paid attention during the trial, now I’m learning from my errors”
Life, it always has its ups and downs. No matter how far along we are at creating the life of our dreams, there will always be challenges. Now this may seem depressing news, but it is quite the opposite. Challenges provide us a chance to grow. The are the seeds to great opportunity. You could never have the feeling without overcoming a challenge. The secret to making challenges work for you is what you do with them. When you find yourself in a troubling situation is your first feeling “Why me?” or how life is not fair? I’ll admit there are days I am as guilty as the next person of this. When we are faced with a situation that is not what we desire we can make it work for us. Even if it is completely out of our control, we can still have a victory if we ask ourselves “What can I learn from this?” If you say nothing, just think if you could learn something from it, what would it be? Maybe it is as simple as who will stand by you when the chips are down, or how you will react when faced with a tough time.
I have a friend who was recently sent to prison. She is a young single mother and for some serious life mistakes she faces over a year away from her family. Now she could simply focus on missing her son, or how her life is so far down the wrong path, but she is not. In fact, she is working on transforming her life while behind bars. She is beginning to explore things like the love of attraction and the power of positive thinking. She is working on educating herself in different fields and writing a book to help others who may be headed down the path she went to so that they may not make the same mistakes. Whenever I receive a letter from her it reminds me how much good can come out of a situation that seems so bad.
The moral is this. Sometimes life will suck. The two real secrets are as follows. First, how to reduce the times that happens. Second, how to make the most of it when it does. If you can do this your life will be a success. So this week as we are faced with challenges let us stop and ask ourselves “how can I make this work for me?”. Be a master of your life, not a victim.