Ok, so a post about random acts of kindness on this blog is probably not shocking to anyone. That being the case however, let us look at what those acts can accomplish. First of all, the purpose of doing random acts of kindness is not to help ourselves, but to help others. Even when doing a selfless act though, we can’t help but to bring a little bit of joy to our own lives. A few examples both I have heard about and experienced personally are as follows. My friend told me about a time her father was just in a terrible car accident and her mother had called her up frantic asking her to leave her job and take her to the hospital. Well of course she left right away and picked up her mother, but as they were trying to merge onto the street which lead to the hospital traffic was at a standstill. Her mother frantic, she looking for a spot to squeeze in and worried about her father at the same time, her heart sank as she noticed traffic seemed to stretch for half a mile. Suddenly, and for no reason at all, a gentle man just stopped and let her merge in. She could hardly believe it and almost missed her chance, as the other motorists began honking their horns and this driver who dared make their wait even longer when clearly they had been waiting long enough already. There is no way that driver could have known where my friend was going and there certainly was no reason for him to let her in. He will probably never know how much he helped my friend and her mother that day.
Speaking of hospitals, my uncle recently suffered a very serious heart attack and i went to see him late in the evening at the hospital. I had started work at 7 that morning and this was around midnight. My aunt was extremely upset and things looked bleak. We stayed until about one, and when we left had honestly thought he would not make it until morning. Well as can happen in a situation like that, trying to capture the little sleep I could before work the next day, I planned to go right home. That is until I heard my gas warning go off. I pulled into the nearest station and filled up. Then, out of force of habit I asked to purchase a lottery ticket. The man asked if I knew it was almost 2am. I apologized and said I did not. This cashier at a gas station patted me on the shoulder and said looks like you had a rough night already, don’t worry about it. I simple compliment, but it did mean the world to me. Perhaps I should’ve expressed my gratitude, but I sure felt it and he may never know how much that meant.
My point today is this, you may never know that your small act of kindness may mean the world to someone else.