What kind of day are you going to have today? About 90% of people will answer that question with “I don’t know” or some form there of. After all, how do we know if the alarm will go off at the right time? How traffic will be on the way to work? What mood the boss will be in? Simple answer, we don’t. Then why, day after day to we give the power over to situations? To often we let circumstances beyond our control dictate how we will feel about our day and to some extent ourselves. When you stop and think about it, that really is a foolish idea. So what to do? Stop ‘waking up in neutral’! At night when you go to sleep say to yourself, or even better out loud “Tomorrow will be a great day” if anyone asks you why, be honest. Say “I don’t know, it just will”. Then when you wake up repeat that statement. Repeat it as often as you can throughout the day, but especially early in the day. You make the decision how your day is going to go. Don’t leave it up to others, especially those who may not know or even care how your day goes. It may surprise you how effective this will be. Like anything else it may take a while to get used to, but stick with it. Take back control of your life! Then when the inevitable challenges do arise, you will know that even though the situation may not be exactly to your liking it will still be a good day. This often separates the happy from the unhappy. Don’t believe me? I’ll leave you with this quote from a former first lady.
“The greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not on our circumstances”
So let’s get out there and make it an amazing day!