What a question to begin the week, I know. A few posts back, we wrote that everyone we meet can become our teacher, if only our minds are open to them. The same holds true for every situation. In fact, this is one of the great secrets that can get you through some of the worst situations you will face. Being able to take a step back and ask yourself, “What can I learn from this?” Will show you that everything in life can be made to serve us if we choose to make it do so.

Margie and I have a friend who has, what one might call, a slight anger problem. He is aware of it, and for a while confessed that he was unable to control it. When I mentioned that he had became his anger’s ‘bitch’ (when in Rome, you must speak as the Romans do) He pondered that for a moment and realized this was so. Being that he fostered a reputation as a tough guy, how could he be a slave to his emotions? Then, I asked him the million dollar question, “What do you think you could learn from your anger? What is it trying to teach you?” Ok, so that was two questions, but they are different versions of the same thing.

I am not exactly what lesson this unfortunately young lady is learning, but if she chooses to, she can learn one. The same with us. If we choose to, we can make any situation, good or bad, an opportunity to learn! The more we realize that we do not know, the smarter we actually are! As the great philosopher above said, “Only stupid people have all of the answers.”

As we plunge headfirst into the week ahead, let us strive to get knowledge out of every situation we can. It will not only reduce stress, but it will increase intelligence! Talk about a win/win! Can you think of any situation that you managed to turn into a lesson?