REMEMBER TO REMAIN INDEPENDENT πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ

Today in the United States, we celebrate Independence Day. I imagine in Great Britain, they do not celebrate so much. Although this is certainly a national holiday, some of the principles should be celebrated and incorporated globally. Today, we are going to take a look at a few of these characteristics and look into what it means to truly be independent. These thoughts can be applied both politically and personally. We are going to take a look at both of them.

One of the main sticking points in the colonies declaring independence from our good friends overseas was “Taxation without representation.” Meaning, the people in jolly old England collected taxes from the colonists, but they did not have any say in how that money was spent. Our government is set up so every person who pays taxes has a representative in the government. The sad thing is that most of us do not ever have contact with this person. It is not that we are unable. It is that complaining is easier than looking up contact information. We should regularly share what is, and is not important to us with our elected representatives. On a personal level, we should always make our desires and what is important to us known to those who make decisions that affect our life as well. This includes our boss, our spouse and anyone who plays a roll in making decisions in our life. This is not to say we should be a fountain of complaint. Far from it. Just like in politics, when you are charming and persuasive, the results are a lot better. My suggestion is to read the book, How to Win Friends and Influence People.

Another point of grievance was freedom of religion. Not all of the colonists wanted to belong to the great church of England. They wanted to be free to practice their religion, whatever that may be. Personally, I think this is a good thing to be able to do. As long as your belief does not bring harm to others, it is my belief that you should be able to practice whatever religion makes your spirit happy. I think laws based on specific religions or dogma do not belong in an independent country. Laws for common sense morality are a different story. Another important point to note is that laws cannot govern one’s heart. What you believe is a personal and spiritual process, not one that can be mandated by the state.

Speaking of personal, there is a way in which this can be applied to our personal lives. Just as the government has no right to tell you what religion you should practice, neither does your neighbor. As long as your religion is focused on bettering yourself and not causing harm to others, it does not matter in what form it takes. You may not have to agree with the ritual and beliefs of your neighbor, but you must respect them. That is part of being independence. You would not want them telling you what you must believe, therefore, you must not tell them what is right or wrong when it comes to their spiritual beliefs. That is one reason the ‘golden rule’ is the same in so many spiritual practices. We all are required to respect our neighbor, just as they should respect us. I think this is one thing that could use a great deal of attention in today’s world. Being independent is not only being free to believe and worship how you choose, but to allow others to do the same. That especially holds true for those who are different than we are.

ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS I HAVE EVER WRITTENΒ 

THE GOLDEN RULE. The basis of every religion and shown in this picture perfectly. I will never forget the first time I saw this picture, it was at a pow-wow I was at. I actually got chills reading it. Virtually every faith has the basic belief to treat each other as they wish to be treated. Then confusion set in. IF every faith believes this, then how come there is so much conflict between them? That is the million dollar question that has plagued man for centuries.

How can men of different faiths not only all get along, but work together to bring peace and love to the earth? By doing just that – working together. Most of us believe our faith to be the one true faith. That is fine, but understand that just as much as we would not enjoy hearing our beliefs are incorrect or spiritually lacking, neither would any other faith. It is ok for you to believe what you do and them to believe what they do, even if that happens to be different. Let us instead strive to learn what we can from each other and to view each other with love and compassion.

There were lots of universal truths presented here in this blog this week. If you have not had a chance to view them I invite you to do so. There are quotes that have inspired me from at least 3 different faiths. My apologies for those faiths I did not quote from, I promise in the future I shall show some amazing inspiration from yours as well. Which is what this is all about. We can learn so much and accomplish so much more by working together than we can focusing on our differences. The above example of the golden rule is but one example of the basic truths we all hold dear. The more you search, the more you will find. Sure, there will be differences and we must treat those with respect. As long as it does harm to nobody, we should all be free to believe and practice as we do. Our ritual may be different, our wording may be different, but our love can still be the same.

A COMMON THREAD

Working with the public you sometimes hear a lot of views expressed you would rather not.Β  Now I don’t advocate any spiritual belief except for the one that the individual decides is right for them.Β  In making that decision, however, it does not free you up to pass judgment on those whose opinions are different then yours.Β  After all, much like politics, what good will it do?Β  Telling them your beliefs are right and theirs are wrong, or worse yet, calling them names will not make them change their mind.Β  In fact, it only sheds a bad light on whatever spiritual path you may have chosen.

In every subject in which there is strong opinion my first suggestion is to understand.Β  My second suggestion, find common ground.Β  One ‘common thread’ that I have noticed runs through most of the common spiritual paths is the golden rule.Β  We have heard it a million times, said a million different ways since we were young.Β  ironically the teaching of the golden rule encourages us to look for that common thread.Β  We will discuss this ‘rule’ in another post.Β  Here I thought it might be interesting to show how the same phrase is present in several of the main belief systems.

“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” –Christianity

“What is hateful to you, do not to your fellow-man. That is the entire law; all the rest is commentary” –Judaism

“Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful” –Buddhism

“No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself” –Islam

BlessedΒ is he who preferreth his brother before himself” – Baha’i faith

 

So if people ask, “How can you like these kind of people” you can see, because we are all human and we are not that different.