This weekend sure was a busy one! Friday was my lady’s birthday. After work, I plannned on taking her out to dinner. I also had to get the gifts that I got her together. Then, I worked Saturday morning. After which, I was going to go to the gym. That evening, I planned on taking my lovely lady out for a second, more romantic dinner. Sunday, the gym again, plus we DJ at night. That is a lot of activity. It also involves a lot of driving.

It started with climbing into my car to go to work at 4:30am on Friday morning. What happened next, has probably happened to a lot of you. My ‘check engine’ light came on. It wasn’t even five o’clock in the morning and already I was facing a significant challenge. I had a lot of driving to do and my car was telling me that it was not feeling the best. Was it something serious? Was my gas cap just loose? Would it die on my 35 minute commute for work? Would I have to cancel the amazing dates I planned? A million questions swirled in my head as I pulled out of the driveway. The light wasn’t flashing, so I figured it was worth a shot of making it to work.

To counteract the sick feeling in the pit of my stomach, I decided to focus on what I was grateful for as I drove along. I was grateful my car was still running. I was grateful I was going to work to earn money that could be used to fix whatever problem this happened to be. I was grateful to have such a beautiful lady to be celebrating, even if I couldn’t take her for dinner. It was painfully clear that nothing could be done until I was able to take my car to my mechanic. I was grateful to have one that I had an established relationship with.

Turns out that this was a fuel pressure sensor. This is nothing that will destroy my engine if I kept driving it. It was also a reasonable fix that I will be able to do tomorrow. All of this was more to be grateful for. Discovering this issue before my car refused to start or before I was stranded in the middle of nowhere was certainly something to be grateful for. I also would be able to do all of the things that I had planned that weekend. Once I get it fixed, I was told I might even notice a slightly better fuel performance. Another thing to be grateful for.

Like many things in life, having your ‘check engine’ light come on is seldom considered a blessing. Really, having such a warning can ultimately save us money, inconvenience and help us be safe. It allowed me to shift my focus on what I had to be grateful for and to practice some of the very things I teach. That opportunity could not have been had without the challenge. How many opportunities are made available in your life through struggle? Are you able to see them that way?